The Piedmont Death Collective (PDC) is a network of death workers, grief tenders, and creatives.

 

The PDC provides a safe container where imagination and curiosity are encouraged to extend beyond the status quo.

 

We aim to provide education and resources for caregivers, grievers, and those at the end of life. Our work remains fluid, under an umbrella of hope and compassion, to reclaim how we care for the dying, bringing death and grief literacy and advocacy to the community.

We believe death and grief work is community care, a shared responsibility, and a moral obligation. It is a political act. Our offerings and services are open to everyone.

 

We believe community care is whole-person, every-person care. We recognize what we do not know and welcome learning from others.

 

We honor and tend to the macro death—the transition of a soul leaving this human experience—and the micro deaths, which we experience daily, such as the change of seasons, loss of a job, the ending of a relationship, and aging. We welcome and honor the messiness and the beauty of the cycle of regeneration, birth, and death. We foster a space that allows authenticity, vulnerability, and agency.

 

We recognize there is a constant undercurrent of grief we often neglect. Allowing ourselves to go deep into the waters of sorrow, we experience the alchemic power of the pain and loss we all experience in human life. The PDC provides a safe and sacred space for sharing our grief.

 

Mel Parinello

Mel is a registered nurse with a 20+ year career caring for elder folks and those at the end of life. She is an end-of-life activist. Her work specializes in educating and empowering individuals and the public on end-of-life issues that encourage and promote awareness and informed planning and proactive decision making.

Mel is also a Reiki Master practitioner, certified death doula, certified somatic coach, and grief educator.

She believes in the alchemy of death contemplation work, that it can be an invitation to rediscovering your authentic self and living a life anchored in individual truth while remaining open to the flow with what comes and goes.

This messy AND beautiful AND sometimes brutal human experience has provided Mel with treasured nuggets of wisdom and a wide and deep toolbox she loves to share. Her passion is rooted in her own continual practice of removing her masks and sharing her true self, with all her quirks and nuances. Mel honors the natural rhythm of the life cycle, honoring joy and grief, love and heartbreak, life and death as a sacred thread that connects all humanity.

Danielle Lee

Danielle Lee, GC-C, BS is a multi-passionate social worker & grief counselor dedicated to guiding, supporting and problem solving while maintaining empathy and compassion for those she works for, with and alongside. 

 Her professional background, coupled with her own lived experiences and education, have allowed her to work closely and comfortably with people from various walks of life and diverse backgrounds. The majority of Danielle’s 30 year work experience has been devoted to those navigating individual and collective journeys related to grief, illness, unexpected life changes, loss and trauma.

 She advocates strongly for the importance of self-care practices as well as honoring the present moment, mindfully, to support each person’s unique and authentic healing process.